General Forum
RE: What is the meaning of your life?
I honestly do not know. :) I have been asking myself this question for as long as I can recall and of course it has plagued all of humanity since our species achieved ToM (Theory of Mind). People keep trying to figure it out. Is it just evolution and you need to make lots of babies? Do we pose the question because we struggle with our ultimate death? Is it a spiritual journey to help us achieve nirvana (reincarnation)? Is it just to help us to create our own reality? Is what we are experiencing one of many realities or even just a hologram as some physicists theorize? You and many others may ask ourselves this question, but my hunch is the the happiest people do not even think about it.....they just live. And also many confess a belief in God.....and yet their behavior suggests they do not live a purposeful life to align with that belief. Look at all the people who spend all of their adult lives seeking money and power. And consider this....here we are on what for most is a "sex site" discussing the meaning of our existence. I suspect some snarky replies will ensue......:)
RE: What is the meaning of your life?
Wow, Pete, mate, you should give a conference on TED!! This is a good example: https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship?language=nl#t-1117 .
For me, it's simpler: "The meaning of life, is life itself" (Mark Twain)
For me, it's simpler: "The meaning of life, is life itself" (Mark Twain)
RE: What is the meaning of your life?
Mark Twain had so many great quotes. Here is one you may like: Go to heaven for the climate and hell for the company. :)
New mobile platform
I like the new design of the mobile platform. but will take me a little time to get used to it. I like especially the cleaner, full screen view in private, and the fact that emails are now identified and dated. The only thing i don't like is still no cam-to-cam. It seems to me with most phones having front and back cams nowadays cam-to-cam would be easy. Skype does it. WhatsApp does it. Facebook Messenger does it. Why not CC mobile app?
RE: New mobile platform
To cheap to pay the cost for someone to make that app for them I suppose.
RE: New mobile platform
People saying "Old news" refer to the fact that they already know what you were trying to tell them or that it isn’t important anymore
RE: New mobile platform
My apologies, I just meant that this was talked about before in the technical forum. And yes the mobile site has worked for long time.
RE: New mobile platform
I think what Zinman is saying is that the mobile has an entirely new look.
Prostate orgasm
Hi has anyone enjoyed a real prostatic orgasm (no front stimulation, just back)? Is there ways to maximise the chances of getting a prostate orgasm? and finally, is there models willing to guide a sissy to that?
RE: Prostate orgasm
u mean a anal orgasm ! Is is possible if u are good in masturbation !
RE: Prostate orgasm
yessss, i learnt a few months ago!!!! it's the best feeling, so intense that I limit how often i do it. it's best to practice with front and rear stimulation for a while, then move to just rear once you've had a fair bit of training. I'd say finger is better than toy (i've found). Ive even had a multiple orgasm where i thought i would just carry on and on.
RE: Sweet dreams:)
Burning all the evidence solves that problem. No evidence no crime! lol ;-)
Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
Not all guests are stroking, I assume, but those of us who do, like me, if possible and allowed, of course... sometimes I like to savor and enjoy the experience to make it last longer. Which means sometimes ending a private session before cumming. Sometimes it seems the host takes this personally, or thinks that I am unsatisfied with her, or is disappointed. Is this common? I do not hang up without saying thank you, bye and/or explaining why if she asks.
RE: Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
Yeah. I prefer viewer cum with me.
RE: Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
I cum into depression (joking)
RE: Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
well i might find it a bit difficult to take ...especially if he is a new guest and he leaves without any warning....but if its about a regular guest and we already know eachother i could understand surely :)
RE: Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
Try not to take it personally, KimmyMilf. As for me, sometimes I just like to take a rest and/or extend the pleasure.
RE: Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
If a host is disappointed or takes it personally, then she has a lot to learn, or needs to get over thinking she is to blame. Personally, I'm old, I'm fat, I'm diabetic, and I have prostate issues. Sometimes it is just not in me to cum. Hell! sometimes I'm not even in the mood for sex! It doesn't mean the host did anything wrong, or that the host is not sexually exciting. In fact, it's not the host's fault at all -- it's my own health and medical concerns, Still, I always worry that the host will think she doesn't have what it takes to get me off, or that I don't find her interesting. So I will assure her it's me, not her. But the fact is, if I'm visiting her, it's because I find her interesting, and though my male anatomical parts may not perform like they used to, down deep inside things are working fine (in my mind, that is). I still enjoy seeing a beautiful, naked woman pleasuring herself, even if little Roscoe can't rise to the occasion anymore.
RE: Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
Ahahahha little Roscoe !that was good! I totally agree with u ....we are not here just for sex ,we are here to comunicate and have a connecion
RE: Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
i get down if they cum ! most times i try to turn them off , or dont let them cum but they still manage to cum somehow ! what do i do wrong?:)))))
RE: Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
This is very funny! ;-) Thanks for your hardcore attitude!! :-)
RE: Models: Do you get let down if guest doesn't cum?
I am very sorry that you have troubles with your health...I had headaches ten years.Having a lazy gallbladder, I was adviced to eat only fruits and vegetables and to walk daily.I tried my best.
I lost about 3kg in a month . I felt slimmer and younger from the first week so if you try, you can improve things a bit and enjoy life.
Take care, Mister Love!
I lost about 3kg in a month . I felt slimmer and younger from the first week so if you try, you can improve things a bit and enjoy life.
Take care, Mister Love!
Weird Science
Just like the movie "Weird Science" if you could produce a woman or man with these features listed to computer by feeding it, who would you choose for the features. Mine would be:
1. Forehead: Kate Moss
2. Eyes: Scarlett Johansson
3. Eyebrows: Kim Kardashian
4.Lips: Emily Ratajkowski
6. Face Shape: Rihanna
7. Breast: Gemma Atkinson
8. Legs: Lindsay Ellingson
1. Forehead: Kate Moss
2. Eyes: Scarlett Johansson
3. Eyebrows: Kim Kardashian
4.Lips: Emily Ratajkowski
6. Face Shape: Rihanna
7. Breast: Gemma Atkinson
8. Legs: Lindsay Ellingson
RE: Frankenstein
Why did Frankenstein’s monster give up boxing?
Because he didn’t want to spoil his looks.
Because he didn’t want to spoil his looks.
RE: question for models
Of course we like it)) Btw ... long time not seeing, i remember you ;)
JessicaStars
What a wonderful person she is! Such a beautiful, sweet, and fun person to get to know. Made a believer out of me about the non-adult categories. I enjoyed my very non-adult visits with her more than I ever did in the adult categories -- I guess because we related on more of an intellectual, interpersonal level than on the level of lust and desire, and I'm the one who once said he would never visit any host in non-adult. She changed that!. I'm sad to see her go, adn wish her all the best in whatever she is doing -- and hope some day she'll make her way back here for a reunion!
NEW THREAD - Based on "Bummer Experience"
I've read the entire thread and see both sides. Zinfanwhatshisname seemed crass but had a point.
It's fine for host to consider member friend, and member the host a friend, but save your whines for free chat, not when the member is paying for it. i doubt many members would want to pay money to listen to someone's problems. You go to a counselor and pay the counselor to tell your problems to, not for the counselor to tell you his. (just for example)
It's fine for host to consider member friend, and member the host a friend, but save your whines for free chat, not when the member is paying for it. i doubt many members would want to pay money to listen to someone's problems. You go to a counselor and pay the counselor to tell your problems to, not for the counselor to tell you his. (just for example)
RE: Your Match
my match ambiguous the meaning could be.....
match in sense of prefectly matched in sense of man that connects for me on a mentle and physiological level...? for me has to be a man that is very deeper in his thoughts....crazy out the box thinking,,,,not like a indoctrinated sheep interlocked into the control of mass societies thought patterns. a man i can talk about things like multiverse , string theory , awaiting a cheeky come back with the string theory.
other term for match... would be football and ofc i support Malmö FF swedish team !
so tell us austinpp your terms of match????
match in sense of prefectly matched in sense of man that connects for me on a mentle and physiological level...? for me has to be a man that is very deeper in his thoughts....crazy out the box thinking,,,,not like a indoctrinated sheep interlocked into the control of mass societies thought patterns. a man i can talk about things like multiverse , string theory , awaiting a cheeky come back with the string theory.
other term for match... would be football and ofc i support Malmö FF swedish team !
so tell us austinpp your terms of match????
RE: Your Match
my match: loves to smile, not a complainer, someone that shares their deepest thoughts and dark secrets to their soulmate, loves music, sports, especially hockey, loves the outdoors, cross country skiing, salmon and trout fishing, I know I'm not asking for much, but I was thinking.
RE: Your Match
my match ewww gross dont even wanna go there .. the stuff I do in the privacy of my own couch.. lol I just got home from work and my face is already freckled with crumbles.. and yes I know its some kind of criptic message addressed to someone ... and I being just a total lonely loser butting in... whatever ... no apologies lol
RE: Your Match
not a criptic message addressed to someone , just think about, but if you got no idea, that's cool also
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
I did,actually i had two long term relationships with people that i've met on the sites . Of course that doesent mean im going to meet all my members :)) It just happened that during my 5 years of camming so far to meet the type of person that i needed to be at that moment :)
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
That i needed to be With * at that moment :D ( morning me has a hard time typing,lol )
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
I am curious why you are curious? :):)
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Because he doesn't trust the answers he'll get from members :))))
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Maybe ))) But this site has been working for ages and I think the answer on this question is obvious... I think it would be better to specify the question...
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Maybe Teddy is a new member and doesn't know the obvious. Or maybe he is only now considering such a move.
Personally, I find it interesting how many times this question comes up in the forums. Clearly, there is more than a virtual relationship going on in some guys' minds, and fantasy blurring with reality. But for some it is a reality. For some a disastrous one. For others a successful one.
Personally, I find it interesting how many times this question comes up in the forums. Clearly, there is more than a virtual relationship going on in some guys' minds, and fantasy blurring with reality. But for some it is a reality. For some a disastrous one. For others a successful one.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Kind of like the male propensity for bragging about exploits in bed with the hot girl at school, even when the exploit was only in his mind, eh?
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Probably because he's entertaining the possibility of meeting up with someone. Or maybe he is writing a book.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
happens all the time just that many of them don't log in on here anymore because its not healthy for a relationship to be hosting and .. so on :) so those girls are not going to answer you. its up to you to make a sense of whats going on in your case and not get played. did you actually click with the person and engaged in genuine relevant convos ?:)
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
I'm like the way Ladymodel said it- I think it would be better to specify the question
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
WTH is there to specify? Hosts, have you met a member in real life? Sounds pretty specific and clear to me. How's this for specific: Hosts, did you ever wear pink panties when you met a member in real life? Or, did he offer you a smoke on a cigar or on his cock? or did he take you to expensive restaurant and did you get him drunk and roll him? Or did he try to get you in bed? Did you?
RE: above post was meant for AustinPP and Ladymodel
sounds like someone took something and made it humorous-- not to teddy
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
I did in 2003 in Finland on the same trip.
1. A lovely Romanian graduate student who was at university in Tampere. She met me at the train station and we had a enjoyable, non-sexual sit down. We met a day or so later for coffee which was also fun. She was 20-23 years younger than I was and I was 48. Wonderful person who was exactly as she portrayed herself here at CC. She is most likely married to a non-Romanian and doing quite well. She was well educated in engineering. NO SEX.
2. A model from Latvia who at or about my age and a beauty. I flew from Helsinki to Riga. She was at the airport to meet me. We had a lovely weekend which included dinner, the Latvian Philharmonic Orchestra, sex, sightseeing, sex. I flew back to Helsinki to be with friends. I then arranged for her to join me in Helsinki for another weekend. Wonderful time with a wonderful woman. She was exactly as she portrayed herself here at CC. SEX.
I did not stay in touch with her because it was not the right time in my life. With that said, she was all you could ask for, smart, caring and pretty. When I left her, she had tears in her eyes.
Now I know this post will generate a lot of sniping, skeptics and general whackos. I intended to let you know that real relationships develop from this fantasy site.
1. A lovely Romanian graduate student who was at university in Tampere. She met me at the train station and we had a enjoyable, non-sexual sit down. We met a day or so later for coffee which was also fun. She was 20-23 years younger than I was and I was 48. Wonderful person who was exactly as she portrayed herself here at CC. She is most likely married to a non-Romanian and doing quite well. She was well educated in engineering. NO SEX.
2. A model from Latvia who at or about my age and a beauty. I flew from Helsinki to Riga. She was at the airport to meet me. We had a lovely weekend which included dinner, the Latvian Philharmonic Orchestra, sex, sightseeing, sex. I flew back to Helsinki to be with friends. I then arranged for her to join me in Helsinki for another weekend. Wonderful time with a wonderful woman. She was exactly as she portrayed herself here at CC. SEX.
I did not stay in touch with her because it was not the right time in my life. With that said, she was all you could ask for, smart, caring and pretty. When I left her, she had tears in her eyes.
Now I know this post will generate a lot of sniping, skeptics and general whackos. I intended to let you know that real relationships develop from this fantasy site.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
I am a Yank and Helsinki happened to be where I was on holiday to visit a friend and his family in Tampere.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Interesting. I don't know any "Yanks" who refer to themselves as "Yanks" -- that's pretty much a Brit name for us. We generally proudly refer to ourselves as "Americans". My guess is you are British -- unless, of course, by "Yank" you are referring to yourself as a masturbater.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
That is ridiculous. If you travel abroad with any frequency, especially to the UK, you may very well refer to yourself as a Yank.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Never. Nor do I know anyone who would.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
I am American, and use "YANK" for the purpose of the large NON AMERICAN audience here. As I stated, I anticipated some type of sniping. Thank you for confirming.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Well, yes, there's that too :))
Thanks for your level-headed post btw.
Thanks for your level-headed post btw.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
I understand your view 100%. I did not feel very good about seeing the tears. On the other hand, had it been the start of something new, you would be happy to read my story. As with life, romance and love, there is a little or much of both. Thank you for expressing your viewpoint.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." An Englishman wrote that, but we can all appreciate how it might apply :)))
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
NO, thanks awfully for asking though, nice when a stranger shows interest
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
so to answer your question yes it happens quite often like on any other online platform... got crabs ?:)
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Okay...that gave me a real laugh..not just the usual LOL. Thanks. ........................still chuckling.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Yes! And I wish you had warned me first - now I've given them to my wife too!!
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Of course many hosts have met members. It's been happening since these sites started appearing in the late 90s. In the bad old days, for every happy ending there was some other guy who was stood up, extorted, used etc. I get the impression things have got better though.
The odds of getting a host to be generally interested in meeting a member are very small though unless you're some kind of Chad Thundercock with a 7 figure salary. I've met three hosts in 15 years. Two of them were wonderful ladies. The third I think probably wants to kill me. We didn't get on.
The odds of getting a host to be generally interested in meeting a member are very small though unless you're some kind of Chad Thundercock with a 7 figure salary. I've met three hosts in 15 years. Two of them were wonderful ladies. The third I think probably wants to kill me. We didn't get on.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Oooh, now i am tempted to hear more about the killing. What happened? Why did she want or why she still continues to want to kill you? Where is this rage coming from? Or she is just genuinly a killing machine? And how can you live safely these days?
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
Wanting to kill me is just an exaggeration. Sorry to disappoint you :)
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
So much for that fetish!
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
engaged to be married or engaged to ruin the guy ?:)
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
I kind of got that, was just being mean:)
Most girls who get married give up the whole "hosting" thing for obvious reasons so its very unlikely that theyd post on here about it.
Most girls who get married give up the whole "hosting" thing for obvious reasons so its very unlikely that theyd post on here about it.
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
kimmmy baby thats not how the world works... you gotta get a job too :)) Ideally I wouldnt mind it, ive got plenty of stuff to do and hobbies to enjoy but in the end iit would blow up in my face really. You cannot depend on someone ... like totally and you cannot put your whole life in the hands of a person. Many relationships end up being a total nightmare really
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
totally cant imagine marrying anyone from here, its such an imaginary world here, and people in real life arent who they are here...
i think marriage its such a tiny chance in this site, even thro online at times connection can be just perfect
i think marriage its such a tiny chance in this site, even thro online at times connection can be just perfect
RE: Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?
yep you cannot hold this website against them... men are pervy in any corner of the internet. you just gotta put some time into trully getting to know someone and making the right choice or some silly thing like that :))
Bummer experience
I stopped in to visit with a model I hadn't seen for awhile but who always gave me a super hot time. But when I asked how she was she starts going on and on about all her problems, health problems, financial problems. I was so depressed I just told her I had to go.
Why would she do that? I was looking for a great time not wanting to hear about all her problems. Real mood breaker that was.
Why would she do that? I was looking for a great time not wanting to hear about all her problems. Real mood breaker that was.
RE: Bummer experience
It's nice to know that, thank you. She is not russian or even eastern european.
RE: Bummer experience
From time to time men here complain that models are cynical, bitchy, want only money (remember recent post about primadonnas and etc)))). And what else to do if you are treated like insentient doll who always has good mood, smiling, healthy, happy. PS for Zinfandel - this model probably really thought that you were interesed about how she had been. To avoid such misunderstandings, it is bettter to talk plain what you want. You will get the show, she will get money, everybody will be satisfied.
RE: Bummer experience
When I visit Russian hosts, I will be careful not to give the impression that I care.
RE: Bummer experience
So what you are saying is that you didn't really care about him anyway? You just listened because you are a host?
RE: Bummer experience
And because you are getting paid for it. Zinfandel was paying for that time.
RE: Bummer experience
No I said I hadn't seen her... I had not visited in her room for a little over 2 months.
RE: Bummer experience
Maybe because we are simple humans and sometimes need a shoulder to lean on? Or at least to think we might have one
RE: Bummer experience
This is for you girls..models.. What are we doing? What are we?
I like to see myself as an entertainer. No matter how awfull my day was, no matter how sad i am, i am not going to take it out on a member ! they have they’re own problems, and the main reason why they come here is to forget about them ! I am gonna make them smile and feel great cause that’s where i get my motivation and my happiness from, by making others feel great and smile. Of course i have a small group of people that know what is going on in my life,good and bads..but i won’t share my personal problems with a new member that doesent care or wants to know. You had a bad day? that’s okay, everyone has bad days, just dont get online in that day. Or just like in any other job..leave you’re problems at the door . Be professional girls...
I like to see myself as an entertainer. No matter how awfull my day was, no matter how sad i am, i am not going to take it out on a member ! they have they’re own problems, and the main reason why they come here is to forget about them ! I am gonna make them smile and feel great cause that’s where i get my motivation and my happiness from, by making others feel great and smile. Of course i have a small group of people that know what is going on in my life,good and bads..but i won’t share my personal problems with a new member that doesent care or wants to know. You had a bad day? that’s okay, everyone has bad days, just dont get online in that day. Or just like in any other job..leave you’re problems at the door . Be professional girls...
RE: Bummer experience
Mylesaway2, thank you! I am sure I did sound quite calloused in my post. and I did ask her "How are you?" But in my country that is usually just a polite sociability for which we usually expect nothing more than "I'm fine, thank you." On the street, most people don't even stop to hear the answer, they just keep on walking, because real genuine replying is not expected or welcome. It's basically just another way to say "HI" or "HELLO". If other cultures are different, it is good to know that so I don't repeat the same mistake again.
I do like the host, however. But I wasn't paying to listen to her problems. I was paying for some fun, some virtual companionship, some sexual release.
I do wish now I had been more compassionate, however. But I would rather do that in freechat (honestly).
I do like the host, however. But I wasn't paying to listen to her problems. I was paying for some fun, some virtual companionship, some sexual release.
I do wish now I had been more compassionate, however. But I would rather do that in freechat (honestly).
RE: Bummer experience
Just came across this. It does shed some light on our "American" ways:
From poet Arthur Guiterman,
"Don't tell your friends about your indigestions:
'How are you!' is a greeting, not a question."
From poet Arthur Guiterman,
"Don't tell your friends about your indigestions:
'How are you!' is a greeting, not a question."
RE: Bummer experience
Why not to be moody if you have opportunity? :p
I dont know what happened in her life, but if id be a viewer, id better be direct about my wishes
I dont know what happened in her life, but if id be a viewer, id better be direct about my wishes
RE: Bummer experience
well whatever you would do..if you get payed for it, it's considered to be a job :) (even if part time, it's still one ) I'm camming from my house too,but i like to keep it professional . You can relax talking with people on other social medias without getting payed :))
RE: Bummer experience
and being moody sometimes is a very well paid thing as well...lol
RE: Bummer experience
it wasnt to you actually, sure we have to be nice to ppl anywhere, but sometimes some special guests just cant be treaten nice all the time, because they behave like moody children
RE: Bummer experience
Of course, but a more personal touch, is not complaining about you're own problems as a model. Im sure that girl has some things to be happy for, she is just chosing to be negative and see only the bad parts in her life, thats why she made the member run away. There is a very fine line between letting someone know the real you, and literally suffocating them with all of ur problems. Not only here but in life also, some need to learn how to appreciate what they have instead of focusing on what they dont have. It's just a matter of view, life is how you chose to see it !
RE: Bummer experience
Zin does not identify the host (for obvious good reason), so we don't know her age or maturity level, and certainly not how severe her circumstances are/were. So how anyone here characterizes her behavior says more about the one posting than her. As for Zin, we don't know how much his patience was tried before he left the private. Zin might actually be a saint. Except he is a member, and we know that's not possible :)))))
A host I knew years ago was a dear friend. We were chatting once; she was telling me about some odd experiences she had with a member, and I made a joke about him. She got angry with me. She explained, when you are in a private with another person, and esp when you are naked, you are both vulnerable... literally so, but emotionally so as well. She chose always to respect that. I have come to see that is how she was professional in her approach to working here.
She also knew she could tell me anything. But that was our connection, and it takes time (and more) to establish such a connection.
Good thread, thank you for some thoughtful posts.
A host I knew years ago was a dear friend. We were chatting once; she was telling me about some odd experiences she had with a member, and I made a joke about him. She got angry with me. She explained, when you are in a private with another person, and esp when you are naked, you are both vulnerable... literally so, but emotionally so as well. She chose always to respect that. I have come to see that is how she was professional in her approach to working here.
She also knew she could tell me anything. But that was our connection, and it takes time (and more) to establish such a connection.
Good thread, thank you for some thoughtful posts.
RE: Bummer experience
No I didn't find it humorous. I thought your original post was callous, as you have suggested yourself.
I figure everyone is entitled to a bad day, and if I am connected in some way to that person (such as visiting them repeatedly), I am willing to give them some space and time to be themselves.
Maybe you are like this too, but I can't tell. You sounded like you were pouting.
I figure everyone is entitled to a bad day, and if I am connected in some way to that person (such as visiting them repeatedly), I am willing to give them some space and time to be themselves.
Maybe you are like this too, but I can't tell. You sounded like you were pouting.
RE: Bummer experience
I get you. I also don't like it when someone I don't know demands of me some private infos.
I often have pitiful days at work or at home but unless I know someone really well and he was the first to confide in me with his lifes torments Id never go down that route.. not in the context of this website that is :)). and everybody has shitty days and has to deal with the usual office nonsense so I feel like I gotta hang in there just like everybody else does and just joke about it some.
I often have pitiful days at work or at home but unless I know someone really well and he was the first to confide in me with his lifes torments Id never go down that route.. not in the context of this website that is :)). and everybody has shitty days and has to deal with the usual office nonsense so I feel like I gotta hang in there just like everybody else does and just joke about it some.
RE: Bummer experience
That's quite harsh and slightly uncaring, especially if in free chat, poor lass just wanted to open up a bit.
Did you get to tug away with another host?
Did you get to tug away with another host?
RE: Bummer experience
This just highlights a real lack of empathy. There's no two ways about it.
RE: Bummer experience
Maybe, but were you there? Do you know how long he may have listened and expressed concern? Do you know if he was in a paying session, or in free chat? Who made you judge?
joke of the day or is it?
Husband: "I don't know why you wear a bra, you've got nothing to put in it". Wife: "You wear briefs, don't you ?"
RE: joke of the day or is it?
"I have reason to believe that man first walked upright to free his hands for masturbation" This is a joke of the day)
RE: joke of the day or is it?
My wife and I went to the County Agricultural Show and one of the first exhibits we stopped at was the breeding bulls. We went up to the first pen and there was a sign attached that said:
THIS BULL MATED 50 TIMES LAST YEAR
My wife playfully nudged me in the ribs ..... Smiled and said, "He mated 50 times last year, that's almost once a week".
We walked to the second pen which had a sign attached that said:
THIS BULL MATED 150 TIMES LAST YEAR
My wife gave me a healthy jab and said, "WOW~~That's more than twice a week! .......... You could learn a lot from him".
We walked to the third pen and it had a sign attached that said:
THIS BULL MATED 365 TIMES LAST YEAR
My wife was so excited that her elbow nearly broke my ribs, and said,"That's once a day .. You could REALLY learn something from this one".
I looked at her and said, "Go over and ask him if it was with the same cow".
My condition has been upgraded from critical to stable and the doctors say I should eventually make a full recovery
THIS BULL MATED 50 TIMES LAST YEAR
My wife playfully nudged me in the ribs ..... Smiled and said, "He mated 50 times last year, that's almost once a week".
We walked to the second pen which had a sign attached that said:
THIS BULL MATED 150 TIMES LAST YEAR
My wife gave me a healthy jab and said, "WOW~~That's more than twice a week! .......... You could learn a lot from him".
We walked to the third pen and it had a sign attached that said:
THIS BULL MATED 365 TIMES LAST YEAR
My wife was so excited that her elbow nearly broke my ribs, and said,"That's once a day .. You could REALLY learn something from this one".
I looked at her and said, "Go over and ask him if it was with the same cow".
My condition has been upgraded from critical to stable and the doctors say I should eventually make a full recovery
Are man...
afraid of beautiful woman?! I'm wondering cause many woman think so - what u think?
RE: Are man...
they're only scared of the Brains+Beauty combination...beauty+stupid is okay for some :))
RE: Are man...
I think it's more complicated than that, and probably different for different guys. Some might become self-aware of their own shortcomings and lose confidence. Others just forget how to be themselves in their eagerness to please and put on a performance instead. Still others fear the competition. I am sure there are other reasons.
Sandra, I guess you ask because it is curious that women put so much effort into being beautiful only to intimate the guys they might want to impress?
I hope by now I am over that. A lovely woman is like a beautiful sunrise... I have seen many, but I am still amazed :)))
Sandra, I guess you ask because it is curious that women put so much effort into being beautiful only to intimate the guys they might want to impress?
I hope by now I am over that. A lovely woman is like a beautiful sunrise... I have seen many, but I am still amazed :)))
RE: Are man...
in some way u r right, but i asked more cause i notice that man fall for less beautiful girls and have so many good looking woman single and lonly :(
RE: Are man...
If women had any idea, even for a second, how we really looked at them, they would never stop slapping us.
RE: Are man...
Not so much afraid, as perhaps, the sense that the more beautiful they are the more they are out of my league. That's why I was so surprised when Deepika Padukone and Jourdan Dunn have both been coming on to me and asking me for a date.
Oh wait, maybe that was a dream. Wow! sure seemed real at the time, tho!
Oh wait, maybe that was a dream. Wow! sure seemed real at the time, tho!
RE: I'm afraid of handsome guys.
non of us have so much confidence that we dont get shy with someone we like, but question is more, why and what prejudice we have that stop us from even try - looks dont say anything about personality and are we going to like someone or not?! why man avoid to even try getting to know person even here - not to mention in real, lol!?
xxbabedollxx.
she is the one who makes me afraid. She's so beautiful. I can't bring myself to enter her videochat
RE: Are man...
I would not call it "afraid of pretty women". Any interesting woman kind of spooks me off, as i immediately get in touch with my very own insecurity. Am i good enough? Nothing helps except for continuing to try. :)
RE: xxbabedollxx
YESSSSS! Exactly. it's not her beauty so much as my insecurity. Those early memories of rejection from girls I had a crush on, still linger in my psyche! Good job, alittle! Wanna be my speech writer?
RE: xxbabedollxx
have the same issue with the guys. I am comfortable with the average looking guys but just hate hate to be around great looking guys. and good looking ppl are very aware of the power they hold over us! lol I cannot even get myself to ask a beautiful girl questions about beauty products in some Sephora shop.. feels like I should just give up lol. I'm never going to look as magical as they do ... don't even know why they hire total babes ... and no I'm no bi! lol they just intimidate the hell out of me. we should just god damn ban them for good.. have them on some island living among their own and have magnificent looking babies ..
RE: Are man...
harvey weinstein is clearly fierce in that dep! hes a god damn hero to all men:)) living the dream
Hosts: What do you think about harshly abusive hypnosis/slave/fin domination scenarios?
There is a large subgenre or trend around "hypnosis" videos like the ones that are so common on various other clip and cam/phone sites.
Do you think this style has evolved more because of demand from male 'customers', or is it because the Domme/host actually intends to manipulate the male into actually spending more and more time and money obsessing over the Domme? Is it intended to implement the scenario as described, transcending a fantasy and becoming reality, albeit exploitative? Or is it expected that it is a role-play, perhaps in which the roles are not explicitly acknowledged, so as to intensifty the sense of risk as the scene more closely resembles the reality it ... that's what the guy meant when e said hall of mirrors, isn't it? ;)
Do you think this style has evolved more because of demand from male 'customers', or is it because the Domme/host actually intends to manipulate the male into actually spending more and more time and money obsessing over the Domme? Is it intended to implement the scenario as described, transcending a fantasy and becoming reality, albeit exploitative? Or is it expected that it is a role-play, perhaps in which the roles are not explicitly acknowledged, so as to intensifty the sense of risk as the scene more closely resembles the reality it ... that's what the guy meant when e said hall of mirrors, isn't it? ;)
RE: Hosts: What do you think about harshly abusive hypnosis/slave/fin domination scenarios?
In reference to CC being a hall of mirrors, I wasn't speaking to this scenario, specifically. People tend to see what they want to see. Then sometimes they insist that you inhabit their own little world that they call reality and explain it to you in absorbing detail.
Which is still far outside my own little world.
Anyway. CC is one of the best amusement parks I know. Thank you for your post.
Which is still far outside my own little world.
Anyway. CC is one of the best amusement parks I know. Thank you for your post.
I love kinky requests!
Surprise me with your kinky idea! That turns me on a lot!
I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
As I read some of the things members post here, I find it interesting that some of them seem to give the impression that the host is doing them a favor, and that they owe the host for doing so. The fact is, the member is paying for the service here. If anyone is doing anyone a favor, it is the member not the host.
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting anyone should go into a paying session being rude and demanding, as if their paying for the host's time means the host is the object of their whims and desires. On the contrary, I believe in respecting hosts (and vice versa). And I believe there should be mutual give and take, a desire to bring pleasure to both.
But still, I don't understand this idea that the host is doing them a favor. (It's not explicitly stated, just implied in things they post.) What we have is, at the very root, a business transaction in which both parties are being benefited.
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting anyone should go into a paying session being rude and demanding, as if their paying for the host's time means the host is the object of their whims and desires. On the contrary, I believe in respecting hosts (and vice versa). And I believe there should be mutual give and take, a desire to bring pleasure to both.
But still, I don't understand this idea that the host is doing them a favor. (It's not explicitly stated, just implied in things they post.) What we have is, at the very root, a business transaction in which both parties are being benefited.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
How do you know that the notion of the host doing the member a benefit isn't at the heart of the "transaction," to use your word? "I am pleased to please you, if you please" :)))
I wouldn't be quick to characterize what happens here so simply. It is a hall of mirrors here sometimes.
I wouldn't be quick to characterize what happens here so simply. It is a hall of mirrors here sometimes.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
If you see this as a transaction, you'll never allow any cam girl to offer you something to be grateful for. The entire show will be mechanic and the conversations will just fill your time and drain your wallet. We're happy with just that as well, but don't expect us to offer anything more than required. There are guys around here that bring more than money to the table. And THAT is what we're grateful for. Cheers ! ! !
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
first u are wrong u are not paying for service. u are paying for Host's TIME! mutual respect is requied but see this difference please. paying for service u mean SHE MUST do something u desire. how u desire and she has no right to introduce ur fantasy rules because U PAY.
but paying for our TIME (wich is correct) means u pay to spend ur time here, respecting host's rules and wishes and trying to get what u want or.. doing what she wants =) cheers
but paying for our TIME (wich is correct) means u pay to spend ur time here, respecting host's rules and wishes and trying to get what u want or.. doing what she wants =) cheers
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
Yeah, when I visit the doctor I always remember that I'm paying for their TIME, not their medical expertise....
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
there re difference between paying for time and service.
manicure = 20$ => u re paying for service,
doctor = 100$ u re paying for service,
host = 1-10$/min! u pay to spend time with HER not for her service! u may spend this time as u want but even if u wanna say hi, and it takes 2min U PAY! so its different.
manicure = 20$ => u re paying for service,
doctor = 100$ u re paying for service,
host = 1-10$/min! u pay to spend time with HER not for her service! u may spend this time as u want but even if u wanna say hi, and it takes 2min U PAY! so its different.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
You appear to be confusing two things:-
1) The charging model
2) The buyer's expectation of a service being provided for the charge.
1) The charging model
2) The buyer's expectation of a service being provided for the charge.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
The two things are conflated, not distinct. The categories are set up to create expectations, but the hosts are not compelled to follow them. IA is a possible exception, since nudity seems pretty much required (or your money back lol). But you are literally paying for their time in the other categories.
The best hosts I've met and talked to are able to connect with a member to create a satisfying experience, whatever that means for the member. A "primadonna" won't get very far without some savvy, misandry or not. Of course, YMMV, That's the whole point.
The best hosts I've met and talked to are able to connect with a member to create a satisfying experience, whatever that means for the member. A "primadonna" won't get very far without some savvy, misandry or not. Of course, YMMV, That's the whole point.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
You're absolutely right. There are a few unusual men who actually come here to waste their money with women that treat them like dirt. Seems crazy to me - why don't they just marry an awful woman for the same experience 24/7? :-)
But yes, the host is here to give a service. Of course that needs some meaningful interaction - no one wants a fembot - but ultimately the majority of viewers are certainly not paying for "time", they are paying for a sexual encounter over in which, first and foremost, their desires are fulfilled. Whether that involves the explicit pleasure of the host is secondary to that.
But yes, the host is here to give a service. Of course that needs some meaningful interaction - no one wants a fembot - but ultimately the majority of viewers are certainly not paying for "time", they are paying for a sexual encounter over in which, first and foremost, their desires are fulfilled. Whether that involves the explicit pleasure of the host is secondary to that.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
Ultimately for every one of the entitled primadonna hosts, there are five nice girls in their early twenties who are eager to please.
There seems to be a market for entitled primadonna hosts. They think they're somehow "empowered" by exercising more discretion over who they show their boobs to than the younger, less experienced hosts. Their very being screams misandry.
My advice is to leave these hosts to the masochists and seek out the others. The ones who will be here for a year or two and then move on.
There seems to be a market for entitled primadonna hosts. They think they're somehow "empowered" by exercising more discretion over who they show their boobs to than the younger, less experienced hosts. Their very being screams misandry.
My advice is to leave these hosts to the masochists and seek out the others. The ones who will be here for a year or two and then move on.
RE: I find it interesting (a rambling thought)
well trouble is the newbies don't have the "skills" that the oldies acquired along the years :)
you might not always have the oldies bend to your needs though cause they have their followers to rely on so they've got that going for them...but their knowledge of "how its done " might have some value to some..and since theres no way in hell that an actual girl would do any of the "stuff" for them ... theyre grateful even if its done for monetary gain. its not as sad as it sounds ! lol
you might not always have the oldies bend to your needs though cause they have their followers to rely on so they've got that going for them...but their knowledge of "how its done " might have some value to some..and since theres no way in hell that an actual girl would do any of the "stuff" for them ... theyre grateful even if its done for monetary gain. its not as sad as it sounds ! lol
it's fun to watch his magic tricks videos:)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W8A2X12KODU